I saw this on facebook today shared by a friend. I have to say that these views are a bit off and they should not be used to make us feel good about things that are not right.
We ARE hot and gorgeous. Why pound on our self-esteem? Feel good about how you look. It makes you more confident and you'll feel amazing too.
I don't feel sorry or sad for not having an amazing figure or a flat stomach. My body carried all my children for 9 months (the eldest is now 20) and i'm more proud of this fact and sad that people don't see it positively and focus more on how it literally looks.
I AM a model. We must all be models to our young ones. Don't have a shallow view on this. We can be models for everything and in everything that we do.
I eat and love food too (and i do love my shape!) but that doesn't mean I have to eat everything that comes my way. Eat healthily and discriminately. Choose what you put into your body. After all, we only have 1 body. So take care of your body. Nobody wants to listen to your sad guilt after you've eaten whatever you've eaten.
Despite the notion of being liberated with your PJs and no make-up day, we should be presentable. We should look good always. Look good for ourselves. When we look good, we feel good, be more confident, have a more positive outlook on life in general and be more optimistic. we become happier and value life more.
Cut with the 'i don't pretend to be someone i'm not' crap. It's your choice in the first place. If you know yourself well you don't have to pretend to be someone you're not in the first place and then feel guilty about it.
Some things may sound good at first but don't take things at face value. We are all intelligent people with a unique mind of our own. Use your brain. Scrutinise everything people throw at you. Evaluate, analyze and assess everything because we are better than that 1 foolish self-centered meme.
